1.Dress appropriately
Rather than have your hosts rummage through their home for extra fleece jackets or make a 30-minute -- or longer -- trip to town for a particular brand of suntan lotion, be prepared for the weather, the bugs and the area you're visiting

2.Sleep well
Some cottagers host guest after guest, leaving bedding and bath linens in short supply; so pack your own sheets, sleeping bags, pillows and towel."So what I really appreciate is during swim season, if people bring their own beach towels."

3. Serve it up
If you're planning on staying for a meal or more, bring a dish like lasagna or goodies for the grill. Mention it to your hosts beforehand so they can check for fridge or freezer space or suggest an alternative (like a dessert or appetizer).

4. Communicate
Some cottages, like Caldwell's, are accessible by water only, meaning guests have to be picked up at a marina. If you say you're going to appear at a certain time, be there; don't leave your hosts waiting while you go for dinner or tour the town.

5.Help Yourself
"Company has to take out food and drinks from the refrigerator when they want them, put their dishes in the dishwasher. If they're here for a meal, they should help in the kitchen, before and after."

6. Be independent
Don't expect a planned itinerary for your trip.

7. Whistle while you work
If you're a regular guest and your host has some projects on the go, roll up your sleeves and pitch in.